How To Read Women's Signals
[This article is still under construction.]
This article is a compilation of information taken from many sources.
If you happen to notice a woman giving you one signal, it doesn't
necessarily mean that she wants you. It's more a matter of pattern and
context. It also depends on who is giving the signals. For example,
signals from shy people carry more weight than from outgoing people who
may be flirtatious with everyone.
Also, you don't need to play a passive role in reading signals.
You can play an active role in methodically seducing a woman and read
her signals as feedback of your progress.
Positive Signals
Eyes
- she gives you occasional glances
- looks at you, eye contact
- stares at you for a moment
- meets your eye and looks away downward
- stares at you for over three seconds
- she faces toward you
- her eyes narrow slightly
- she examines your face, especially your mouth
Face & Head
- she smiles
- she gives an exaggerated smile
- she licks her lips
- she pouts her lips
- adjusts her hair
- flips or smooths her hair or grooms herself, plays with her hair
- she runs her hand through her hair
- she moves her hair out of her face or behind her ears
- she raises her eyebrows
- touches her ear or earlobe
- she blushes
- she avoids touching her face
- she tosses her head back
- tilts her head, especially to the left
Hands & Arms
Body
- her posture changes to look alert
- she is alert and energetic
- touches herself gently
- crosses and uncrosses her legs
- dangles shoe from foot
- adjusts her clothing
- loosens any clothing
- feet firmly on floor
- leans forward, toward you
- leans toward you when you speak
- she conspicuously parades around or poses so as to show off her body
- strokes her thigh
- thrusts her chest out to "show off the goods"
- walks with a wiggle or swagger
Other
Things I've Noticed
- She says "Hi" specifically to you when you are with a group of friends.
- She tries to provoke you into talking to her if you normally don't.
- She says or does things specifically to indicate that she remembers you
or what you've said or done.
- She specifically avoids looking at you in a situation where a neutral
person would. Of course, this may indicate that she is angry with you,
which isn't necessarily a good sign.
Signs of lack of interest
- never sneaks a peek at you
- avoids eye contact
- looks away quickly when she catches your eye
- looks away to the side
- keeps arms open, not crossed
- doesn't adjust hair or clothing
- keeps mouth closed with lips pressed together
- tense, restless, impatient
- keeps legs crossed
- she touches her face
- she avoids touching you
- places her feet on edge or toes, not flatly down
- tightens clothing
- she leans away
- she figets, swings crossed leg
- touches her nose
- holding on to something hard
- shifty eyes, she looks around the room
- she leans back, away from you
- she yawns
- crosses arms, closed body posture
- she doesn't pay attention to you if you are talking
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